I was called Bridzilla and I cried

This Weekend was rough on me


I have been loving wedding planning, I have loved looking at wedding stuff and thinking about how beautiful it will all look when it comes together. I have been stressed but I handled it ok until this weekend.


I have been asking everyone to wear like sunday casual (which i feel is normal and should be expected for a wedding) We are not having a line or anything but I wanted the family (his and mine) to be dressed nice and in our wedding colors (burgundy, ice mint, black) I was wanting the moms to wear nice dresses in either the burgundy or ice mint as well as the sisters and then the dads to wear suits with a vest and tie, then the boys of the family to wear black pants white shirt and the tie I got them. I thought this was pretty simple. I told them I dont want anything to fancy just nice and elegant. Well some people dont seem too happy about the black pants, which I feel they should just do it and not complain I am not asking them to buy new stuff or get a tux, then it seems like I am going to need to print pictures of the dresses I want because I have seen some that question if people understand that this is a classy wedding not a party. I just want everyone to look nice. I just want everything to match and be fun and I felt like I wasnt being too picky but I feel I should have a say. Bret and I decided on these colors together we picked what we wanted things to look like, and we shoud! This is our day and I feel we should be respected for our choices. Others say they are going to look so hot blah blah blah and get all the attention I dont know why but this irritates me and cause me to break down yesterday. I feel that this is my one day to be the pretty girl, this is my day to be the princess and this is Bret's day to look so handsome. I want people to respect that and not make it about them. This is about Bret and I and out love! Thats it and thats final. I love him so very much and he was so great at calming down last night after I cried like a baby. I am so in love, I just need to focus on that, I cant control how some people are. I just wish they would act like people that care and not cave men and women.


With all that negative talk I do want to say that I love his family and I love mine, its hard getting used to new people but I will do anything for him. I love him and I know it will take time to build boundaries and learn people but it will be worth it